Making Positive Change In The Community Means Taking A Break From The Digital World

June 25 2024

Today some thoughts on what I have seen and been thinking about a lot lately and wanted to share. You may agree or disagree with my views but we all need to think about where we can and want to make actual change happen and how it really comes to be. No matter how much anger flows out online, is that the best use of our time? We are all at some point guilty of this and I know I spend way to much time in the digital world; but I am working to get outside and connect and it really is better for our communities and our own health too! I get this from personal experience!

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In today’s fast-paced digital world, it’s easy to feel like our voices are drowned out by the constant noise of social media. Every day, we see passionate posts, heated debates, and calls for action, often followed by frustration when nothing seems to change. While social media can be a powerful tool for raising awareness, real change happens when we step out from behind our screens and engage with our community in meaningful ways—most importantly, through voting.

Voting is the cornerstone of our democracy. It’s the most direct way for citizens to influence government policies and decisions that affect our daily lives. From education and healthcare to local infrastructure and public safety, elected officials make critical decisions that shape our community. When we vote, we have a say in who represents us and how our community is governed.

Every vote counts. In many elections, especially local ones, the margin of victory can be very small. Your vote can be the difference between electing a representative who champions your values and one who does not. By voting, you ensure that your voice contributes to the collective decision-making process.

However, it's not the only thing and to truly make a difference, we need to connect with others in our community regularly and not just during elections. This means having conversations with our neighbors, attending local meetings, and participating in community events. These interactions help build a stronger, more informed electorate and create a sense of unity and purpose.

When we engage face-to-face, we can discuss issues respectfully and constructively, moving beyond the often divisive and impersonal nature of online arguments. Personal interactions foster empathy and understanding which are essential for addressing the complex challenges our communities are facing today. 

While social media has its place in modern activism (and I use it daily), it should not be the sole platform for our efforts. Arguing online, often with strangers or bots, rarely leads to productive outcomes. Instead, let’s use social media to organize, share information, and inspire action—but always with the goal of taking that conversation offline and into the real world.

Here are a few ways to transition from social media debates to real-world impact:

1. Join or Start Local Groups: Find local organizations that align with your values and get involved. If none exist, consider starting one. These groups can organize events, volunteer efforts, and educational sessions that have tangible impacts on the community.

2. Attend Public Meetings: City council meetings, school board meetings, and town halls are great opportunities to voice your opinions and hear from your elected officials. Your presence and participation show that you care about the decisions being made.

3. Volunteer for Campaigns: Supporting candidates who represent your values is a powerful way to influence elections. Campaigns need volunteers for canvassing, phone banking, and other activities that help get out the vote.

4. Engage in Civil Dialogue: Seek out opportunities for respectful, in-person discussions about important issues. This could be through organized debates, discussion groups, or community forums.

True change requires more than just yelling into the void of the internet. It demands action, collaboration, and a commitment to the democratic process. By voting and actively participating in our community, we can create a more inclusive, equitable, and prosperous society.

Let’s channel our frustrations and passions into productive actions. Let’s connect with our neighbors, engage with our local institutions, and, most importantly, vote. Each of us has the power to make a difference, and together, we can build the community we envision.

Remember, real change starts with you. Step out from behind the screen and become active, cast your vote when it's time to do so, and be the change you want to see in this world. Our future generations are depending on us to take care of this land for those who come after.

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With summer finally here and if these thoughts have you wondering about next steps I have an idea …. and if you try it out, let me know all about it - what about throwing a Neighbourhood Picnic!

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Reviving Community Spirit:

The Benefits of Old-Fashioned Neighbourhood Picnics

In an age where digital interactions often replace face-to-face connections, the simple joy of a neighbourhood picnic can seem like a relic of the past. However, these old-fashioned gatherings hold tremendous value for fostering community spirit, building relationships, and creating lasting memories. Whether you’re new to the community or a longtime resident, organizing a picnic can bring people together in a meaningful way. Here’s why picnics matter and how you can start one in your community.

The Benefits of a Neighbourhood Picnic

1. Strengthening Community Bonds: The picnic would provide a unique opportunity for neighbours to meet, interact, and form connections. In our busy lives, it's easy to overlook the importance of knowing those who live nearby. A picnic breaks down barriers, encouraging conversations and friendships that might not otherwise happen.

2. Fostering a Sense of Belonging: When people come together to celebrate, it fosters a sense of belonging and community pride. People feel more invested in their neighbourhood when they know and care about the people who live there.

3. Enhancing Neighbourhood Safety: Strong community ties can lead to safer neighbourhoods. When neighbours know each other, they are more likely to look out for one another and work together to address local issues.

4. Encouraging Diverse Interactions: Picnics bring together people of all ages, backgrounds, and interests. This diversity can lead to richer interactions and a greater understanding and appreciation of the unique qualities each person brings to the community.

5. Creating Lasting Memories: Shared experiences at picnics can create lasting memories and traditions that become cherished parts of community life. These events can become annual highlights that everyone looks forward to.

How to Start a Neighbourhood Picnic in Your Community

1. Gauge Interest and Form a Planning Committee: Start by talking to a few neighbours to gauge interest in having a picnic. Form a small planning committee to help share the responsibilities and brainstorm ideas.

2. Set a Date and Secure Permits: Choose a date that works for most people. Check with your local City Councillor’s office to see if your plans will need a permit.

3. Plan Activities and Entertainment: Plan a variety of activities that will appeal to different age groups and interests. Here are some examples:

   • Potluck meals where everyone brings a dish to share

   • Games and activities for kids, such as face painting, relay races, and sack races

   • Informal sports games like soccer, frisbee, or tug-of-war

4. Organize Food and Drink: Decide whether to have a potluck or perhaps if you have the equipment you can barbecue together. Ensure there are options for different dietary needs and preferences. Don't forget to include non-alcoholic beverages and plenty of water.

5. Promote the Event: Spread the word through flyers, social media, and word of mouth. Make sure everyone in the neighbourhood knows they are welcome. Include information about the date, time, location, and any items they should bring.

6. Prepare for Logistics: Arrange for essential logistics like tables, chairs, and trash bins. Consider where there is a nearby restroom if needed. Ensure there is a plan for setting up and cleaning up after the event.

7. Incorporate Safety Measures: Safety is paramount. Make sure the area is safe for children to play by designating a kid-friendly zone. Have a first aid kit on hand and establish a point of contact for emergencies.

8. Get Involved and Have Fun: On the day of the event, be welcoming and engage with as many people as possible. Encourage participation and make sure everyone feels included. Most importantly, have fun and enjoy the day!

A successful picnic can be the start of a new tradition that brings ongoing benefits to your community. By investing time and effort into these gatherings, you contribute to a stronger, more connected community. The friendships and trust built during these events can have lasting positive effects, making your neighbourhood a better place to live for everyone.

So, why not take the first step and organize a neighborhood picnic in your community? It's an old-fashioned idea that can bring about modern-day benefits, strengthening the bonds that make a community truly special. Let’s bring back the joy of shared experiences and create memories that will last a lifetime.

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I’ll be back tomorrow with a look at the issues being dealt with at this month’s City Council meeting!